Any of you "older ladies" dealing with menopause? I could use some advice!

[amoore]

Richard is a good man. I'm very inpressed that he done that. Not many men understands, like that. That it is serious.

I take evening primrose,black cohosh and soy. I don't have hotflashes. But I still get depressed. I'm blank headed somtimes. ( forgetful) . I was told at work by some ladies they were forgetting, maybe leaving their cars running all night. Some really weird storys I heard. I have not gotten that bad! I do forget how to spell and things like that.

[trayi52]

Ladies, have you noticed there are 44 posts, 45 counting this one and 314 views! Don't you wonder how many men ventured in here and got out in a big hurry? 314 views!!

Willie

[kingrattus]

OMG you poor thing

I'm only 21 & I know what REALLY REALLY BAD hot flashes are like. I got ill from the hot flashes & these hot flashes lasted for several hrs to 1/2 a day at a time.

I was sick for over a week. I'll never take bladder infection pills ever again.

Wait I was only 20 when that happened, I suffered memory loss too heheh.

I know right now that my hormones r messed up cause I have been very moody the past few years. & I know why their messed up too. evil genes

I'll be very lucky if I ever get the chance to have kids. My great grandmother had problems. my grandmother had problems at 40is, my mother had problems at 25ish & I started when I was 13ish.

The dr's just keep saying its a bladder infection. & I darn well know its not & so does the lab that ran my tests. I hate dr.s around here. Also bladder infections have never happened in our family.

I should stop rambling on in ur thread. but I know how u feel about the hot flashes, just hope they weren't as bad as mine.

[trayi52]

Let see, this is a woman thread, and you are a woman so welcome to the club! Of course we even welcome men if they are not too scared to come in......

[moosmom]

Originally posted by RICHARD:

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It's terrible, We want to iron clothes and bake cookies.

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Richard,

The thought of you standing in the kitchen in a frilly apron, taking cookies off the tray makes me SHUDDER!!!

Make mine chocolate chip with walnuts. Uh, BTW, no starch in the collar.

[slick]

Originally posted by RICHARD
It's terrible, We want to iron clothes and bake cookies.




Put a fork in me, I'm done....

Well that does it!!! I'm packin' and movin' on up to CAL-EEEE-FOR-NYEAA. If that's what the guys are like there I'm not wasting any time.

[amoore]

Slick, I would too if I were single! LOL!

I got one that cleans, and cooks but I had a hard time finding him! His Mother had the boys already trained!

[RICHARD]

Originally posted by carole
Maybe our Richard is an older lady?(after all this is the internet folks) or he is just one hellava brave guy to venture in here, I think perhaps the later, GOOD ON YA MATE.!!!

I happened to look down in the shower this morning.....




I was on the other side of the menopause for a few years and
toughed it out.....everything told me to RUN, but good gals are hard to find......


It's the working them up to do my bidding....

[carole]

And dare I ask and what did you see Richard? lol,so you reckon the older ladie theory just doesn't sit with you huh? you really are a guy then? me think so to he he., now you cannot enter an almost "women's Domain area" and not get some flak ya know, all be it in good old fashioned fun.,hey mate have a great day won't ya!!!!!!

[trayi52]

We love having Richard here, we know we can always depend on Richard to give us the honest truth about the man's point of view on this subject.

Like I said Richard is a very brave man to be able to talk to us this way. Most men just turn pink and point in another direction and say "hey whats that over there" and get off the subject just as fast as they can.

Cheers for Richard!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[RICHARD]

Originally posted by carole
And dare I ask and what did you see Richard? lol,so you reckon the older ladie theory just doesn't sit with you huh?

soap suds!



The last time the older woman theory sat with me....

I changed my mind.....not even thinking of heading in that direction.....


I still won't ask for directions.......I am not perfect.

[trayi52]

Richard is that how you got in here, made a wrong turn?

[carole]

Richard as we would say in NZ you are a real hardcase or a bit of a dag, means you are one funny guy, humourous.

[RICHARD]

Originally posted by carole
Richard as we would say in NZ you are a real hardcase or a bit of a dag, means you are one funny guy, humourous.

Let me tell you...It wasn't funny when the GF would toss the blankets off the bed when it was
34 degrees F!!!!

Or being next to her when she was going thru her
"radiant heat" phases......


Thanks!



Tray,

I said I didn't ask for directions.....

and someone needed advice ...

[amoore]

We all love you Richard. Your as good as they get... so you are perfect!

Not all ladies have an understanding guy, like you around.