Girl or Guy friends?

**Foam** · 11-19-2003, 09:00 PM

Icey, one of my best male friend's names is Darren! =)
Unfortunetley, I can't see your pictures. =(

**Rio and Me** · 11-20-2003, 04:30 AM

I have a few really close girlfriends and and few not so close!!
i jave a gay best guy friend!! and lots a close guy mates!!!
both are best for me!! and a boyfriend who is a best friend too and is not jelous of other friends!!!
Ky and Rio

**cloverfdx** · 12-16-2003, 09:38 AM

Chick friends mostly

not that it bothers me one bit

i love hanging out with my girl "Friends",i am going clubbing with them tonight

its "Jolly jugs" night at one of the pubs.

the only male friends i have are from our dog club or they are more feminine than i am lol (they are just one of the girls)

**iceyshiver21** · 12-16-2003, 11:47 AM

grr... stupid pics. Well here they are
Darren and me-

Austin and me-

**tikeyas_mom** · 12-16-2003, 11:47 PM

i have a couple gurl friends right now

alot of people i say hi to in the halls. But i also have a couple guy friends, they dont live around here though.

**Twisterdog** · 12-17-2003, 12:03 AM

I have both. I don't care. I like nice, sincere, funny people that share the same interests I do. I don't care if they are male or female, hetrosexual or homosexual.

I do want to say, however, that I was a bit disturbed reading this thread. I saw some pretty outdated stereotypes thrown around - girls like to talk on the phone about makeup and boys and shop a lot. And a "girly" girl is a bad thing to be.

I also noted that it was women saying these things, for the most part. That is particularly sad to me. If a group of men would have been commenting about silly girly girls painting their nails, talking on the phone and shopping, we would have jumped all over them, and rightfully so. But, here is a group of women, cutting our gender down to the bone. Sad. This isn't a healthy attitude, IMO, and not a climate to raise our daughters in. Are we saying, "If you act like a guy, that's cool. But if you act like a "girly" girl, then that is bad and women aren't going to like you." Hmmmmm..........

**CathyBogart** · 12-17-2003, 12:13 AM

Originally posted by Twisterdog
This isn't a healthy attitude, IMO, and not a climate to raise our daughters in.

Then I'll continue to be a geeky, drag-racing, snake loving, baggy-pants-wearing tomboy, and not have any daughters (or sons) to corrupt with my 'unhealthy attitude'.

Seriously though, my impression of many of the girls I meet around campus or through my friends is just unattractive to me. one of my girl friends used to call me and want to talk for hours about one movie, or gossip about people.

I don't know her anymore...because she tried to seduce my fiancee. I trust him 100%, but I find that I can't trust someone who would try to take him from me.