I think Ivy is going back to his breeder or original owner.

[moosmom]

JennLibrarian is right. There are things you breeders do that would curl your hair!!!

If a breeder feels that there's a "defective" cat, and it will make their cattery look questionable, they will put the cat to sleep.

I'm not saying that Ivy's breeder would do that or that all breeders do that, just that some breeders have been known to do that.

[Catty1]

buttercup...my internet was down from yesterday morning til Just Now...

I am sorry the breeder sent you a hurtful email.

From your earlier posts, she was suggesting that Ivy didn't have to see a specialist...that what they found wouldn't make any difference.

It was suggested to just treat the symptoms. In this case, get the vet to try some meds to stop the cough.

AGAIN - is the coughing worse when he is playing or running? If it IS, then the breeder said it probably is the heart murmur.

If NOT - then the cough is something else, and might be easily treated.

I know you posted this a long time ago - but when does Ivy's coughing happen? Is there anything that seems to make it better or worse?

[buttercup132]

I talked with the person I got him from again and after the e mail I got before from the breeder I decided she's not the person I thought she was and don't feel comfortable giving Ivy back to her anymore.
The person I got him from said if she re sells him she will tell the person about his murmur and give them all his vet papers. If she decides not to re sell him he will get take him to the vet.
Please don't be mad in my desicion.

[Whisk_Luva]

Wait... are you giving him back or not?

Either way I respect your decision (sp?)

[buttercup132]

Wait... are you giving him back or not?

Either way I respect your decision (sp?)

Yes I'm giving him back to the person I got him from.

[jenluckenbach]

Best of luck to Ivy. I am so sorry that he did not work out for you.
Will this person keep you updated so you don't have to wonder how he is?

[momcat]

[b][color=navy]Please don't be mad in my desicion.

After reading through your thread, how could anyone be mad about your decision? Unfortunately this was a very difficult and painful decision you had to make. If I were in your place I honestly don't know what I would have done. When you adopted Ivy you had no idea of what his situation really was and found yourself in a terrible situation with no real options. Give credit where it's due, you didn't rush into anything and contacted the right people (for better or worse). My prayers are going out for both you and Ivy. If you can, please let us know what happens?

[Catty1]

Good job, Buttercup...I hope this lady will keep you updated. His coughing is maybe something she can get checked, and can be treated ok.

I hope she keeps you updated...would be nice to see Ivy pics, if she is willing.

I hope Ducky doesn't get too lonely...there might be a Sphynx rescue somewhere with another nekkid cat that needs a good home. Check the adoption fees first. Moosmom might know of one or two.

Give the little guy a hug for me!

Ya done good in a really difficult decision.

[jennielynn1970]

Could you try to find a Sphynx rescue that would help him?? It didn't sound like the previous owner was too responsible either. I'd have a hard time giving him to any of the previous people.

[Freedom]

Bless you for taking the time to work through this!

[buttercup132]

Best of luck to Ivy. I am so sorry that he did not work out for you.
Will this person keep you updated so you don't have to wonder how he is?

Yes and if she re homes him I'll make sure I get the new persons e mail.
He's still my baby I'd hate to not know whats going on with him. I'm giving her my vet papers too so if she re homes him she can give those papers to the new owner.

Catty I know it will be hard on Duck but for now he has Hank and miss Molly to help cheer him up. Of course I'll be sure to give him extra lovings and explain to him why Ivy went. I'm sure we will both be able to comfort each other and help each other.

Of course I'll keep you guys updated.

[Pawla]

Please don't be mad in my decision.

How could anyone be mad at you? You had a very difficult decision, and handled it beautifully. Everyone here knows how you feel about your naked babies, and this is something beyond your control. You, Ivy, and Duck will be in my thoughts and prayers. Good luck to you, and good luck to Ivy.