The earlier consternation

[carole]

Kay I am so sorry to hear that nasty things were said about you, and of course one can understand how you would be feeling, personally I do take your feelings into account, but also Robyn's, I am not sure on all the details myself, therefore I am in no position to judge.

I am sure it is confusing for everyone especially kay, what exactly to believe, but I think we just have to try and put trust in someone somewhere.

I can only hope that Karen's findings are indeed right, it is a very sad thing to see this type of Rubbish happening on PT.

As I see it Both kay and Robyn have been victims here,and I feel for you both.

[popcornbird]

I don't think we can blame anyone here for not being able to trust people anymore.

Let's put ourselves in Kay's shoes and see how she feels. Then let's say Robyn's not guilty of this as it seems to be now. Put yourselves in her shoes and see how she feels.

Personally, considering Robyn is innocent, I cannot even begin to imagine how she feels. KNOWING how Kay was suddenly personally abused by an unknown person, I also cannot begin to imagine the distrust SHE feels now. One cannot know until they're in the other person's shoes.

I do not doubt Karen on this in the least bit. I do feel she did the best she could. I know she has been investigating since it happened. Let's put ourselves in Karen's shoes too, and see how hard it must be to moderate all these people justly and fairly, especially when such things happen. I'm sure she doesn't want to make the mistake of blaming the wrong person.

No one's perfect. We all make mistakes. Considering the situation everyone affected is in, I cannot say who is right and who is wrong. I'm neutral on this issue. I say we should just let it go. YES I know its not easy for those affected, and it is terribly difficult to have someone accuse you and not know who it is, BUT...it might be impossible to positively know the real culprit behind this. It is a scary thought. I do not know if I can put my trust in everyone on PT anymore. I am grateful...SO grateful that I never gave my personal information openly on the board. I'm so glad I never got pressured into it. Why? I can now see that there ARE people here who are not to be trusted, and the sad thing is, we don't know who they are. I don't know if I'll ever be able to develop trust in a new person I meet online again. The people that I've come to trust on PT are people I'm grateful for, and people who have become my good friends. I 'know' I can fully trust them, but on the board...I really cannot trust people I don't know deeply enough. Its just too public here. You don't know who you're going to come across. Its a feeling that's the result of all this trouble that's been going on lately. Sad? Yes of course its sad...but its just how I feel now. I will always trust the PT'ers I have come to know deep down, but I'm not sure I will ever put my trust in anyone I haven't come to trust yet. Trust is one thing that's hard to put back together again once its broken.

[PJ's Mom]

Why can't this be settled between Karen, Robyn and Kay? It's really none of our business anymore so I can't understand why some of you are demanding answers. It didn't happen to you...Kay was the victim here, and apparently so was Robyn. Let them sort it out with Karen. Kay can do what she likes with the information she gets. As popcornbird said, let it rest already.

[bluekat]

I'm really glad to hear that it wasn't Robyn after all, because I also would've never thought she'd do such a thing..

But I'm also confused as to how the person could get in and use her IP address

[Karen]

Anybody who wants the ansers to Amy's questions can PM me, and I'll send it to you. I am trying VERY hard to end this issue. I will not lie. I am sending Kay another PM.

[buckner]

Do you mind sending me the answers to Amy's questions, too?

[Karen]

I did.

[Samantha Puppy]

Originally posted by Karen
Anybody who wants the ansers to Amy's questions can PM me, and I'll send it to you. I am trying VERY hard to end this issue. I will not lie. I am sending Kay another PM.

I'd like to hear, too...

Thanks.

[Karen]

Folks, please PM me with the request, it's easier for everyone than having to read the same question and answer "send me?" "yup did" over and over. samantha Puppy, I'll PM you now.

[gini]

With all due respect for everyone here..........and not knowing where you live............it is 10:15 PM Karen's local time.

I betcha she would just love to go to bed and call it a night.

Unless..........could it be????? Karen is really just a robot and she CAN work 24/7...........never needs to eat, sleep, talk to her husband - pet Miss Hoppy

[shais_mom]

All I want to say is:
Whoever did it shame on them.
And Kay has Karen ever failed you before?

[kt_luvs_kitties]

I feel so terrible about the whole thing.
Kay, I know your feelings as SO hurt right now. I hope that you know that noone here feels the way "theblob24" feels about you. You are caring, kind, compassionate. Dont let it get you down, It was just an immature attempt at hurting you and others. Dont let them spoil Pet Talk for you. You are too much of an asset to PT to let it bother you. *HUGS*

Karen, Thank yuo for trying to make Pet Talk an even more amazing place to be *HUGS*

And Lastly, Robyn, I am also so sorry you had to go through this. I do not believe it was you. I have never heard you make a rude comment towards anyone, anything. I hope that you also can get past this, and continue posting. I love your pets, and seeing them often. It will all work out in the end. I wouldnt let something so immature and stupid ruin Pet Talk for me. It is a wonderful place, and soon all will be forgotten by most. Keep your hopes up, and keep looking into who would do this, and just know that no matter what, we still love ya *HUGS*

[Logan]

My point, yesterday, to you, Kay, was that I trust Karen and I was surprised that you would insinuate that she might be lying. If you can't trust the moderator of the group, then who can you trust? I'm sorry if I disappointed any of you. It wasn't my intention.

[GraciesMommy]

I don't know the whole story...and don't need to. I am just going to trust that Karen has it under control the best she can and that PT life will go on the way it was intended...

[Maya & Inka's mommy]

Originally posted by GraciesMommy
I don't know the whole story...and don't need to. I am just going to trust that Karen has it under control the best she can and that PT life will go on the way it was intended...

I don't understand the situation either. But I trust Karen in this!
I'd like to advize anyone 1 thing: Forget about it, and relax!