View Poll Results: When did you decided on your sexual orientation ?

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  • I always knew my orientation (no decision)

    73 66.36%
  • I decided when I was YOUNGER than 18 years

    14 12.73%
  • I decided when I was OLDER than 18 years

    2 1.82%
  • I am Gay

    9 8.18%
  • I am Straight

    68 61.82%
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  1. #1
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    i did have alot of sexuality frusterations as a child... i was molested at a young age so it made things very hard for me to cope with. when it came to doctor games and "i'll show you if you show me" games, i would always be the one to start it.......

    i would play with boys and girls... i was told by many people that it was 100% normal, the way i felt and delt with my sexual frusterations, i was very curious about everything on the oposite sex....

    At the age of around 12-13 i was very confused, i hated boys, i didnt understand their way of thinking or acting... to me they were just a total different species. so i was more interested in girls...

    after hitting puberty i was alot more interested in guys... thats when i started going out with boys and kissing.... fun fun hahaha...

    anywho.. i know now that i want to spend the rest of my life with a male, they make me feel safe.... Just me though....
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    TM- that sounds pretty normal to me. Not the molestation part. That was horrible, and I am sorry you ever had to experience it. The other part...the playing doctor, the "i hate boys", then, discovering them..he he he. Maybe you should be in the medical profession?

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    Originally posted by Cataholic
    TM- that sounds pretty normal to me. Not the molestation part. That was horrible, and I am sorry you ever had to experience it. The other part...the playing doctor, the "i hate boys", then, discovering them..he he he. Maybe you should be in the medical profession?
    lately i have been doing alot of research on sexology, or sex therapy. it is very interesting i would love to be a sex therapist.
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    Originally posted by tikeyas_mom
    lately i have been doing alot of research on sexology, or sex therapy. it is very interesting i would love to be a sex therapist.
    Like the sex lady on TV?? LOL. She's so funny, because she;s just so blunt about everything.

    I was alot like you too -- the whole "doctor" thing...Everybody goes through that stage. It's perfectly normal. It's all a part of sexual exploration. All children are curious. I know some people may think it's gross, but I think they should be allowed to explore -- I did when I was young, and I think I'm the better for it.

    I never "decided" what I am. I've always been straight. I feel an attraction to other women sometimes -- but it's not sexual. It's a yearning to be more like them.
    I've been BOO'd!

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    Originally posted by lizzielou742
    I've always been a boy-crazy.
    lol me too!


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    nobody makes a concious disision about their sexuality,its dicided at before birth................some people are just a little more aware of stuff when they are younger,so it takes a few years!
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    It just is. You don't get a choice. I happen to love both sexes equally. My older sister is also bisexual so perhaps it is hereditary.
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  9. Originally posted by CountryWolf07
    I've always known...

    I'm straight.
    Same here.

  10. #10
    dead straight. hey girls, Call me!!

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    Hey, I haven't read or posted in a long time, but, it's guster girl here. Finn is doing great, for any interested parties. But, as for the topic, I'm straight, but, I've made out with other girls for fun and attention. For me, personally, it's no different than kissing a boy, unless you're hands are wandering, ha ha. But, as for just kissing, mouths are mouths. I don't, however, consider myself bisexual. I think different people have different ideas about what that actually means. I guess some would consider me bi, because I have and would kiss girls. But, in my opinion, I don't consider a girl bisexual unless they desire to have sex with a girl or be in a relationship with another woman, excluding platonic relationships, of course. I'm not offended when people say I'm bi, but, I have been in situations with girls I've kissed, and, am completely not turned on by them sexually. So, anyway, those are the thoughts from my head. Scary.

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    Originally posted by Tonya

    Which, BTW, is why I believe that homosexuality isn't a choice. Why would anyone make their lives so difficult on purpose?
    AMEN, Tonya... my feelings exactly.

    Orientation is NOT a decision. I'm straight.

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