I hope this thread isn't to depressing. To me it isn't because I believe there is a better place. After going through my grandfather's death and Mike's cousin's this year, I am realizing how important it is to let your loved ones know what your wishes are. It is really overwhelming when family is grieving to try and figure anything out.

We were talking about this after Guy's funeral yesterday, and sharing our wishes. I said that I just want to be cremated and the money to be donated to an animal shelter in lieu of flowers. I said that they can either throw a big happy party or donate some time to a shelter. Everyone (except my MIL who is an animal lover) burst into laughter. They thought I was joking.