Your first love....

[CountryWolf07]

Hmmmmm.. I'd have to say.. I fell head over heels for a guy.. or two.. but no real love yet..

[2kitties]

Last year, I watched a documentary on Dicovery Science channel. It was a scientific exploration of hormones, etc. It talked about teen love and teen emotion. Apparently, chemicals in the brain actually cause teens to experience deeper feelings of emotion than adults. So, when teens think losing their boyfriend of 3 weeks is the end of the world, the ACTUALLY feel like it is the end of the world. So, while I don't believe teen love is the same emotional, mature bond of adult love, I do believe it exists and causes deep happiness and pain in a young person. Puppy love, for lack of a better term, is very very real.

[Miranda_Rae]

I want my first love to be my husband. When I consider the guys I have had crushes on, I consider it "liking" not loving because to me, loving is a VERY strong word and to me it means eternal, forever, and you don't know how long you are going to like your "crushes", and I want to save that for my husband. I know, I am weird.

[RICHARD]

Originally posted by CountryWolf07
Hmmmmm.. I'd have to say.. I fell head over heels for a guy.. or two.. but no real love yet..

Head over heels love= hold on the person with the reins in their hands.

Real love=get two horses, one for you and one for your partner!


That way, if you 'fall' you only have yourself to blame.

[Tollers-n-Dobes]

My first love was a Miniature Dachshund I have never dated anyone in my life because I have absolutley NO interest in anyone at all. I never have, I'd rather live by myself with a few dogs I know, I'm weird.

[lizzielou742]

OMG what a fun thread. This is really old but fun!

My first love shall remain nameless. I call him Fat B_ _ _ _ _ _ (fill in the blank, think Austin Powers movie). I haven't said his real name out loud in years. We started dating when we were 16. On our first date, we went to see the movie "Titanic," which had just opened in the theatres. He was wonderful at first, but it all changed after the first year. He became very controlling and verbally abusive. It only got worse when I went off to college at the University of Kentucky and he went to the University of Findlay, four hours away. He used to call and 'check up' on me constantly, and couldn't handle the thought of my making new friends. For me, the last straw was in the second semester of my freshman year, when I came home from class one day to find 21 messages on my answering machine from him, filled with swear words and screams about what an awful person I was for going out with someone else (which, by the way, I never did. I was just at class! Amazing how a person's mind plays tricks on them.) I ended our 2 1/2 year relationship right then and there. It really messed me up for a while.

Boys are stupid!

Fortunately, I found a great guy three years ago and we're still together!

[Miranda_Rae]

Originally posted by Orangutango
My first love was a Miniature Dachshund I have never dated anyone in my life because I have absolutley NO interest in anyone at all. I never have, I'd rather live by myself with a few dogs I know, I'm weird.

You aren't weird! I would have said Heidi as my first love, but I knew they were talking about people. Its the total opposite for me....I NEED someone to love and to love me. Thats just the way that I am.

[guster girl]

I loved my husband (now ex), obviously, but, I was only sixteen when I met him. It was a true love, but, not like how I fell in love with my ex boyfriend (whom I dated about a year after my divorce). I still haven't decided if it was a mistake or not. He most certainly, though, was my first real, true, hard, passionate, adult love and my first real, true, hard, passionate, adult heartbreak as well. His name is Brandon.

[heinz57_79]

My first love was in high school. For 5 years, whenever I saw her my heart would stop, my tongue would get tied, and I'd just want to throw my arms around her. However, to this day, she never knew how I felt. I had already come out, and was fairly open about it. But she had several boyfriends. So I never said a word. Then, about a year after we graduated she came out to me in an email. I all but jumped thru the computer and throttled her! Still I didn't say a thing about how I had loved her all those years. And even tho i love Bella with all my heart, every once in a great while I get a twinge of "what if". It will probably be years, if ever, before I get to see her again, her being in Australia and all.

But besides Leanne, Bella is my true love, my soulmate and my world. I wouldn't trade what I have with her for anything.

[ChrisH]

My first love is also my last. Long story but to cut it short ...

We were forced apart when I became pregnant a month before my 16th birthday. Our child was born in 1962 but it wasn't until 1973 that Fred and I met up again and married. Of course in those 11 inbetween years there were other loves, but no-one who compared to Fred. Our time together way too short, he died in 1981, but, although not perfect, it was the happiest time. I still miss him.

Chris

[Tonya]

My first love came to my Halloween party on Saturday. I had invited him and his family, but I didn't expect them to come. His sister came first and then he showed up later with a few friends. After all these years, my heart still starts racing and I get the shakes when I see him. (Don't worry, my husband is my true forever love! This guy is from years ago.) It's wierd because him and my husband get along really well. They have alot in common. It dawned on me when they were hanging out Saturday night that they are alot alike.

[ILoveReptiles]

Well I met my first love back in High School. His name was Bruce and we dated for just about 4 years. I was only 16 at the time, and he was 21.

He joined the Air Force, much to my chagrin, and was shipped off to Germany. We pretty much grew apart after that, and I slowly realized he wasn't all that intelligent, so I got rather bored with him.

He was already dating someone else before we even officially broke it off.

Since then, I've had 4 ex's and all of them were idiots. Two of them were cheating on me, one was a total turnoff, and the fourth was always trying to one-up me in everything... It got really irritating after a while.

Then I met my current boyfriend, whom I fully intend to spend the rest of my life with.

[Sara luvs her Tinky]

My first love!! *sigh*

I think about him all the time.... and that is all i'm gonna say!!!

[KYS]

My first true love was my x-husband.
We met at work when I was 23 yrs old.

[DJFyrewolf36]

Sigh...

My first "crush" was in 1st grade lol. I was put in a "special" class because I wasn't paying atention in kindergarden (I was bored as H**l, thats why). He was in the special class for the same reason (I can't even remember his name right now lol). Anyway, he was the only one that talked to me because all the other kids thought we were freaks or something. He even drew me a picture for my birthday. We were good friends then I switched schools and he moved out of town . I saw him once when I was about 13 and he was HOT lol. I was kind of miffed that he was only visiting town...sigh.

My first "love" though has to be my husband. I've been with many people through the years and I've been through a lot of abuse at the hands of people that "loved" me. I'll admit to being in lust (thats what usually got me into trouble) but I don't think I have ever known love in the way I do now. My husband is my best friend, my lover and everything in between. He is the sweetest guy I've ever known and he treats me like a goddess. I could ramble on and on lol.

I love my hubby!!