Can this GET anymore stressful?

[ILoveMyAbbyGirl]

Thank you all for your kind words.

[ILoveMyAbbyGirl]

Things between my mom and I are definately getting tenser. She definately favors my brother more than me, and she isn't afraid to show it. I can only count down the DAYS until I leave. She slaves us around all the time, and when she actually comes out of her ROOM... it's even worse. I often just try to steer clear of her, but in the end she finds me and yells at me to help her. She's called me an embarrassment MORE than once, shes called me a pig more than once, the insults just never stop.

I just don't know how to make her happy. Nothing I do is good enough or up to her standards. She doesn't know that half the time I come upstairs and when she thinks I'm sleeping, I'm really crying. If she knew what she did to me and how she makes me feel maybe she would change.

[flamepony12]

I'm so sorry. I just saw this thread. I really hope things work out, and that you feel better. You know you can PM me anytime. I know how it feels to be unconsolably stressed, like you want to pull your hair out or stomp or squish something. Maybe you can find a way to channel your stress. You will be in my heart and prayers. (((((((HUGS))))))) xxxxx

Devon

[DJFyrewolf36]

I just saw this. Feel better ok! I can't do much but be a sympathetic ear...Feel free to PM or IM any time!

[ILoveMyAbbyGirl]

Thanks guys.

[carole]

Megan sometimes when people are critical of others, or put you down, it is because they are very critical of themselves and have low self esteem themselves, I don't know your mothers background or her , but I can only make a guess, that after she has said these awful things , she feels terrible, and maybe she is just not in the state of mind to say so, she sounds like she is troubled, and unfortunatley you are getting the brunt of it all, maybe she just hates everything around her at the moment, she sounds like she is just not coping, I don't understand her reasons for all of it, but I am trying to see if there is indeed a reason why she would treat you so bad, not meaning you do anything, just that maybe her world is crashing in around her, it sounds like she is uable to express her feelings to you.

I sure hope things get better, it is not fair for you to be treated this way, you are a very loving, caring, sweet girl, and I wish you could have more happiness ,and not so much stress in your young life, HUGS again, sweetheart.

[ILoveMyAbbyGirl]

I didn't make this thread for people to fight.

Audrey, I even SAID in my post that I know others have it harder than I do. But you kind of have to know my background... asking my parents when I was 10 if they would ever split up because my best friends parents just got divorced after a terrible fight that sent my friend crying to me over the phone, and they told me no, that was a silly question. Believing that my parents would never split hit me really hard, and its been hard to deal with. Please don't accuse me of whining or something, I know you obviously have it hard.

[slleipnir]

Megan: Forgive me for ruining your thread. I deleted all my posts. I'm feeling incredibly depressed and I guess these posts upset me some how I don't know. I'm sorry though.

[carole]

Girls I don't think it matters whether someone has it harder than you, it is how you are feeling at the moment, and who is to judge who has a tougher time, we are all affected different by different situations.

Slleipnir I know you have also been having problems and are feeling low, and no-one here holds that against you,we are all here for support and a kind word . HUGS to you both.

[slleipnir]

Originally posted by carole
Girls I don't think it matters whether someone has it harder than you, it is how you are feeling at the moment, and who is to judge who has a tougher time, we are all affected different by different situations.

I honestly didn't mean for it to sound like that. I get carried away sometimes. Like I said, I didn't mean to take over your thread and I appologize. I know how hard it must be. I've experienced it all before Megan if you want someone to talk to

[ILoveMyAbbyGirl]

I'd love to talk to you sometime, Audrey... whats your AIM screen name?

[petslover]

I hope things get better for you. The hard times will pass onto great times. Just try to look on the bright side of things. Your a great person to chat to on here and I really hope everything works out.

[slleipnir]

Originally posted by ILoveMyAbbyGirl
I'd love to talk to you sometime, Audrey... whats your AIM screen name?

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