View Poll Results: Should I see the drunk driver who caused me to lose my child?

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  • Yes go see him

    4 11.43%
  • No let him rot

    31 88.57%
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Thread: What should I do?

  1. #16
    Oh honey, I'm so sorry I even bothered to post that.
    I just wasn't sure of your whole story.
    I know I don't know you well but if you ever need to talk....I'm here for you.
    I'm so very sorry for what you're going through right now~!!!!! I can't even begin to imagine what has happened to you & your husband & family!
    I'm sorry that this jerk was allowed DUI's "several" times without any "punishment" & with having money behind him......hmm, why does that matter so much to people? I don't believe money buys you happiness....I truly don't! And with what you've had to endure, I hope he & his family realize how he's destroyed your's!
    I'm sorry, I'm sure none of this is really "helping" you but I just wanted to let you know I'm here & we're all HERE FOR YOU!!!!
    Tina

  2. #17
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    Im SO sorry.

    I can't imagine how you feel. It's good that your not going, you shouldn't give him what he wants.

    Not to change the subject or make you upset, but i saw a movie in health not too long ago, about a man who killed the daughter of a family (he was drunk, and slammed right into her). She was only 18 years old, and the parents told the court to make him write the parents a check, for the next 18 years of a dollar, to remind him of what he did. He eventually couldn't take it anymore, because the guilt was resting on him, every friday. It was either that or jail.

    Again, im so very sorry for you.

  3. #18
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    I am just so sorry for the loss of your angel.
    ~hugs to you and your husband..

  4. #19
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    I am so sorry for your loss. I do know how you feel, though mine was not took from me by a drunk driver. Please know that we are all here for you. {{{Hugs}}}

    Willie

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  5. #20
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    im sorry for the loss of your angel
    {{hugs}}

  6. #21
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    First of all, I am so sorry for your loss . . . I had no idea that this had happened.

    I'm glad you've decided to NOT see this man. First of all, it's just too soon . . . you have to be an emotional wreck after loosing a part of you. Plus, is does sound like he's just trying to buy his way out of this one.

    I'm glad you're going to fight this . . . do it for your daughter.

    I pray that God blesses you & comforts you in the weeks & months ahead.
    -christa


    ~RIP Abby Jan 14, 1995 - July 21, 2005~

  7. #22
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    The one thing in life I despise most is drunk drivers, I hope they throw the book at him and he gets finally what he deserves, although nothing will ease your suffering and bring back your child,I hope it might bring you some comfort knowing he will be brought to justice and made to pay for his crime, lets hope its enough to stop him from doing it again.

    HUGS to you both.
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  8. #23
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    I used to work as a paralegal. Do not under ANY circumstances talk to the people that hit you or their lawyer. Tell them you have no comment and all communication should be done through YOUR lawyer and give them his name and number. You need to heal and let your lawyer do al the work. That's what you pay him for.

    I can guarantee you that HIS lawyer is trying to settle out of court because he knows that if it goes in front of a jury, he's screwed. Believe me, lawyers are shrewd. They try to play on the sympathy of the injured parties in order to help get THEIR client out of a horrible mess.

    I am so sorry for your loss. Losing someone to a drunk driver is such a tragedy and makes me SO angry that there aren't stricters laws on allowing these scums back on the street.

    Hang in there honey. We're here for you.

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  9. #24
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    i think he should meet you and the rest of her friends and family!!! let him meet every single person that knew her and let him fully realize that reckless driving can impact a ton of people!!!
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