Why do people say such hurtful things to me?

[NoahsMommy]

Any person that could say that to another is a huge waste of your time.

Being a girl, we take that stuff to heart, though. Even if its untrue. I'm sure you feel ugly now, just because of his words. Well, we don't think you're ugly, you are very pretty. Do something to make yourself feel pretty again, take a bath, paint your toes. Something girly that will restore the you that you know you are.

Feel better.

[Tollers-n-Dobes]

I've seen pictures of you and you're very pretty Don't listen to what this guy has to say about you! For some reason alot of people always say these kind of things to women, most of the time for no apparent reason.

[Amber]

I think your a gorgeous person, cassie. I wouldn't worry what he has to say about you. He's obviously not worth your time.

[slick]

Cass...my heart goes out to you for I've been in your shoes before. It is hurtful but you can choose to let it eat you up or lift your head up high, know that you are beautiful, and move on. Forget this person. Right now you need to surround yourself with people who will give you positive vibes and not bring you down with stabbing words.

{{{HUGS}}}

[Miranda_Rae]

Originally posted by kimlovescats
First of all, no "friend" would say these things to you ... he's a JERK! Second, I would not change myself for anyone! If YOU feel these things about yourself, and want to try and improve them, then do so, if not ... then just love and respect yourself the way you are and go on! (without the jerk)

((((HUGS))))
Kim

I AGREE!!! Anyone who treats people like that has self esteem issues or feels insecure. I have seen pictures of you, and I think you are very pretty! So please ignore him (easier said than done, I know), and remember that there are many people that care about you for being YOU and for whats on the inside rather than the outside (although there isn't anything wrong with the outside), which he oviously doesn't. {{{HUGS}}}

[cookieluver7]

Hey, don't get down on yourself. I'm sure you are a beautiful girl. And if others don't think so then they are wrong. If you aren't gorgeous on the outside, then you are probably beautiful on the inside. (meaning that you are a very nice person.) That boy just isn't looking deep enough. Don't get down on yourself. Hope that helped!

Hey, who knows, maybe this guy likes you and maybe he is just hiding it with this.

[carole]

Cass firstly I think you are a very pretty young woman, and I am not just saying that, I cannot believe the audacity of this person, I would not even explain anything to him, he is not worth the time of day sweetie, you are who you are yellow teeth, bangs and all, I have honestly never noticed anything like that about you, and hey I have yellow teeth, some people do, infact I heard people with yellow teeth often have better quality teeth, if you know what I mean, less chance of cavity's etc, not sure if its true or not, but mine are not too bad , even at my ripe old age lol.

I don't smoke or drink much caffine, so its what you are born with, both my children have the same, my son had lots of antibiotics when young and so did my daughter and that generally tends to stain the teeth.

I too would love a bleaching job on the teeth, but cannot afford it, the price is outrageous, but then as I have never had white teeth, it would take a bit of getting used to, might look odd.

Cass there are just some plain mean minded folks in this world, often they are so critical because they feel bad about themselves, and it helps make them feel better if they can put you down.

This person's opinion is worth diddly squat sweetie, be proud of who you are, you really are beautiful inside and out, don't think any less of yourself, ya here me!!!!!!

The stupid part about this is, that anyone who has seen your picture would be lying if they said you were anything less than pretty,honestly Cass you are so darn pretty girl., how can you believe otherwise, because of this stupid jerk, forget him.!!!!