I need all the hugs you can spare.

[kimlovescats]

Oh Jen, I am just now seeing this thread!!!! Oh gosh, do I know about depression! I will e-mail you!

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Kim

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[jazzcat]

Jen, I just want you to know that I think you are a wonderful person. You've done so much to help so many cats and other people. I have so much respect for you and I hate to see you hurting like this. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers and I'm here anytime you need me.
Lori

[Lilith Cherry]

Please remember that we all consider you to be a warm and wonderful person aand I am sending a million cosy hugs to be used as needed. Depression is so hard to deal with , but please let us help in any way we can. We all care about you very much!

Love and Hugs from Lilith

[Jods]

Jen,
I'm sorry to hear your having a hard time right now. I don't know you really well, but if you ever wanna chat email or PM me I will be there for you. You have so many friends here just look at the responses to your post everyone here is judt dying to help you so if you need it you know where to come...
***HUGS***

[Barbara]

Jen, depression is a disease and I hope the doc and the counsellor can help you (I am convinced they can!)

Like any person in the world you have the right to be loved unconditionally just because you are you.

Look at what you have: Charlie, wonderful cat friends, your little house- that all is very good plus here are all your PT friends That is a lot and you have it becauase you are you! And don't dare to think you are unworthy!

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[QueenScoopalot]

(((HUGS))) coming from Mass. Jen. I too get depressed many times, and all I have to do is look around at all the innocent faces saved from the streets, and I usually feel better. I agree with purr therapy! Take a nice hot bubble bath, and a nap (make sure to insert purring kitties into bed)...and things will get better.

[Maya & Inka's mommy]

for you, Jen!!

(I sent you a pm)

[Edwina's Secretary]

Jen...my thoughts are with you. You may be surprised to find how much better you will feel ....and how much better you will be able to bounce back from the blows of life ...when you have the right chemicals in your body.

[carole]

Jen sweetie you have my empathy, I have been through betrayal myself lately of a different kind to your's but nonetheless it hurt so bad, and I am still trying to deal with it daily.

I don't know why this person did what they did to you, but please donot feel it is all your fault, infact it is probably not your fault at all, I know nothing I can say will ease your depression , but just remember Jen it is their loss.

Just try to occupie your mind with other things, if you can, because the worst thing ever is to constantly have it on your mind, any troubles become so much worse, and I have seen someone have a breakdown due to the fact they never thought of anything else.

Come on by and lean on your friends here at PT, and you have many of those Jen, who love and care for you, and will listen and offer support anytime of the night or day, when ever you feel those bad moments coming on, please talk to us, and pm me anytime you wish.

Most of us have experienced similar things and so each and every one of us can relate and can tell you how we dealt with it.

I am really sorry to hear you are so miserable right now, and I know its the worst feeling in the world, trust me Jen it will get better and you will get over this, you must know what a great person you are, don't let one persons odd behaviour tell you any different.

LOVE AND HUGS to you Jen.
P.S Jen i just wanted to add, I know all the kind words in the world don't seem to make a difference right now, but you know they actually do help in the end, speaking here from experience, I personally felt so much better after talking with everyone here on PT, they just made me see things clearer and gave me the energy I needed to deal with my troubles.

I know your depression is part of the problem, but it is what has happened that has sent you into the depths of despair, so if we can help with that in any way, it will hopefully help your feel a little better within yourself HUGS again dear lady.

P.SS Jen that person is NOT worthy of your friendship, turn to those who are and feel the unconditonal love they have to offer you.

[persianmom]

Jen

I'm so sorry that your friend is treating this way. Please go into councelling. I was married for 26 years and he told me how unloveable I was How I was no good at anything and in general just put me down for everything. I went into counceling after we diivorce. After many appointment I can say I'm a person who deserve to be loved and treat with recpect. You are to. Please I speak both from a personal and medical view point. Seek help. You are a worth while person. Remeber God does not make Junk. You are in my prays.

Love ya Persianmom (Carol)

Hugs Hugs Hugs Hugs coming your way

[jazzzytina]

Jen, I agree with so many others here. I've had depression for many years and have been on medication for it for a LONG time. It really works.

And, like you, I have had a friend in the last year, who was a friend since 1st grade, just decide (over the election, mind you) that she wants nothing more to do with me b/c she believes she's a "better Christian" than I am. And that was really hard. It's only been recently that I've been able to move past it.

Lots of people here at PT love you. One person's opinion of you can't outweigh the hundreds of opinions here who think you are just great!

Sending love and prayers your way,
Tina

[Karen]

Lots of hugs and an absorbant shoulder (good for crying on) are all being sent you from us!

[kt_luvs_kitties]

That you are feeling this way. It doesnt prove you unworthy, it proves your friend unworthy of having just a lil compassion. *HUGE HUGS* here also. Dont be down on yourself. I hope you feel better soon, and get the strength you need to get over all this. You do alot for cats and its MORE than most do. That shows you have a HUGE HEART with alot to offer.

[Fox-Gal]

Oh I am so so sorry that someone who you concidered a friend did this to you. I totaly understand how you are feeling and it hurts as well as make you angry sometimes.

There are some people in the world who don't know what a true friendship is or how to be a true friend and good people like you are the ones that suffer from their short comings/faults.

For over a month now, I have been angry, depressed and hurt over what a friend did to us. Someone who said they thought of us like family. Someone we put a roof over their head, food in their belly, etc etc, for months when they where going through a hard time. Then when things didn't go their way, they turned on us and more or less said we meant nothing to them. It hurts and it makes you feel used in a way.

Now when we run into him, he doesn't even look at as and has the nerve to say we where wrong. He's the one that used his fist to try to open our door, told us to have nice F%#%ing life and we are in the wrong?? Why because we put a roof over his head!!! And all we asked for was a "I'm sorry"

Anyway, this is not helping you any, I guess, It justs my own anger is coming through, thinking about it again. I guess what I'm trying to say or show, is that a lot of us have been fooled by so called friends. But try not to get to depressed about the whole thing. I know it's hard, I'm working on that too.

I tell myself that I got along fine before this person came into my life and I'll get along fine without them again. In the long run, it's their lose, more then mine. They lost a good friend that would be there for them when they needed and if they are to foolish to realize that, Oh well, do we really want a person like that in our life?

Find someone to talk to, do what ever you need to do to feel better, If you need someone to rant to, feel free to Pm me. I'll be gald to listen and rant back if need be. Just don't let this event get the best of you. your to good for someone to hurt you, You know it, we here know it and anyone who truly knows you knows it too and the H$%$ with those that are to foolish to know it.


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