Just thought I'd check in as I won't be around too much longer

[dukedogsmom]

Woo hoo! He's a good looking guy. For some reason, I thought you were a little older. Don't know why, though. No wonder you can't wait for him to get to you. Looks like you're off to a good start.

[zippy-kat]

Good luck, Cass!

[luckies4me]

Originally posted by carole
Cass I was so sorry to hear your news of the split with Dan, However if he was becoming abusive, then girl you did the right thing, it is hard to do, and a lot of women just cannot make the break especially when children are involved.

Your new Beau is a cutie pie for sure, I just hope you are not rushing into things too fast sweetie, yeah there goes that motherly advice again, but I am pleased to hear you have found someone that makes you happy, I hope things work out for you both, but Cass just be careful ok.

We'll, we've actually been talking for quite a little while. Rushing, ya, maybe, but we both want this, and it feels right. I had to do what was right. Dan is always yelling, swearing at me etc. A few weeks ago I was on the way to work when he slammed on the breaks and cursed me out, in front of everyone, and Dylan. I've been in an abusive relationship before, and I didn't leave as I had pets then and I was so young and stupid. I don't and won't put up with it now. I gave him a chance to change and he didn't, so that's his fault. I'm not going to waste my life for him. Plus, Dylan doesn't need to hear two people fighting all the time.

I will definitely be careful, for sure! Actually, we are both being careful. We are both scared for the same reasons, but something is drawing us to eachother, and there is nothing we can do about it. I appreciate your motherly advice always.

[luckies4me]

Originally posted by dukedogsmom
Woo hoo! He's a good looking guy. For some reason, I thought you were a little older. Don't know why, though. No wonder you can't wait for him to get to you. Looks like you're off to a good start.

Well, I'm 24, so still young enough! hehe He's just a tad bit younger than me. Not by much though.

[luckies4me]

Originally posted by zippy-kat
Good luck, Cass!

Thanks!

[luckies4me]

Oh want to know why I like him so much? He LOVESSSSSSSSSSSS animals! Dan doesn't. Plus, he's got an overly cute dog that reminds me so much of my Pooka, it's crazy!

[carole]

Sweetie I just hope for the best for you, sounds like it has been rough lately, and you are right Dylan does not need to see or hear that behaviour, you are doing the right thing, and I admire your bravery, its tough on your own, but then you will have that babe Derek at your side,Best of Luck, and I hope you can get a computer soon and be part of PT as before as I for one will miss your posts.

Cass you have a great deal of maturity for a young person, and I think you will do just fine.!!!!

[pitc9]

Good Luck in everything you do, I look forward to updates!!

You are a strong person... you should be proud of yourself for leaving a relationship like that. I envy you for it!

[luckies4me]

Thank you all very much. Tonight is when the computer is supposed to leave, or should leave. Tonight is not going to be a goodnight.

[trayi52]

Cass, I am sorry, I had no idea things had got so bad for you. No woman deserves to be abused like that.

I am so happy you have found somebody to have that special feeling with. It is rare to find that special feeling with somebody you have so much in common with. If he like animals too, you really have it made!

I wish happiness for you and Dylan, you deserve it! It just sounds like its about time you started to have a truly happy life.

Willie

[luckies4me]

Thanks Willie.

[shais_mom]

Good Luck Cass!