That's it. I've had it.

**Felicia's Mom** · 12-08-2003, 12:39 PM

Compared to you, my problem isn't so bad: Sometimes when Felicia is in the litter box she pees on the floor outside the box.

Every time she does that, I tell myself: "at least she is using the box".

**moosmom** · 12-08-2003, 01:02 PM

Stacwase,

I didn't mean to sound too harsh. But I'm SO glad you decided to take her in. I think maybe indoor/outdoor might be the best alternative. Don't forget to put a collar and nametag on her in case she wanders.

Good luck and please keep us posted.

**aly** · 12-08-2003, 01:14 PM

You can rehome cats with litterbox issues. I've seen it happen lots of times. All you would really need to do is find an established, responsible cat rescue group.

Thank you for putting her back inside. Leaving her out in the cold will solve nothing.

**popcornbird** · 12-08-2003, 02:11 PM

Put a diaper on her!

I'm sorry you have to go through this. I know I probably wouldn't be able to stand an animal peeing in the house either for long.

But I'm glad you're giving her another chance. No kitty deserves to live outside for good. Hope you can solve your problems!

**aly** · 12-08-2003, 02:41 PM

I actually have resorted to using diapers on my geriatric foster animals a few times. It is a pain and you have to be sure to change them often to keep the animal clean, but its much better than most alternatives.

**Cataholic** · 12-08-2003, 02:46 PM

I am so glad you decided to bring her inside. I was in tears, nearly.

We ALL get frustrated. Vet bills, incurable conditions, vomiting, premature deaths, irresponsible people. You just needed to vent. We all do.

So, re-examine the situation. If necessary, rehome her. BUT, remember, to her, she isn't doing something wrong. There is a reason, you just don't know it.

In any event, thank you for reconsidering your decision.

**stacwase** · 12-08-2003, 03:45 PM

"I actually have resorted to using diapers on my geriatric foster animals a few times. It is a pain and you have to be sure to change them often to keep the animal clean, but its much better than most alternatives."

Really? Did they leave them on? That's a thought.

So, re-examine the situation. If necessary, rehome her. BUT, remember, to her, she isn't doing something wrong. There is a reason, you just don't know it.

I'm pretty sure I do know why she's doing it. Remember she had a bad urinary tract and anal gland infection? That was when the problem started. I think she left her scent on the sofas and then when her physical problem was cured she thought that was where she was supposed to go. She'll literally hold it until she can get to the sofa sometimes. I think she's trained herself to use it.

What do you think?

By the way, she's in Max's crate now. Happy as a clam. His crate is HUGE. I'm going to just put her food and water and litterbox and a little bed in there, and let her out only when he eats and when I can watch her.

Oh now she's meowing - better let her out for a bit.

Thanks for listening to me vent. How many times have I said "That's it" or "Last chance"?

**wolfsoul** · 12-08-2003, 03:48 PM

I'd try leaving her contained in a room for a week or so. Maybe it will uncondition her behaviour towards the sofa if she isn't around it for a period of time.

Good luck!

**jenluckenbach** · 12-08-2003, 03:49 PM

I am glad she is back inside. I am sure that one of the above ideas will be your answer. I too needed to use diapers on my diabetic cat who simply could not hold it long enough to get to the box. Indoor/outdoor combined with some plastic covering might just make a diference. I now have plastic on my furniture covered by inexpensive sheets or blankets. That way only the sheet or blanket needs washing in case of accident, but the upholstery is safe.

**jazzcat** · 12-08-2003, 03:51 PM

I'm so glad she is back in. I think the crate training that Jen talked about is a great idea. You can retrain her to use the litterbox and during that time maybe you can find some way to get the sofa clean and free of her scent.

I'm so sorry the other things you have tried didn't do the trick but hopefully with all the great advice here something will work. If you live in a safe area (no loose dogs or high traffic) maybe the indoor/outdoor kitty is the way for you to go if nothing else.

Hang in there!!!

**carole** · 12-08-2003, 04:10 PM

I think everyone can understand the dilemia you have been put in, and I for one would hate to be in your shoes!!!!

I am glad to hear she is back inside too, making her an indoor/outdoor may be the way to go as payitforward suggested, however I think you may have hit the nail on the head, the physical problem maybe be cured, but now just to get her habits changed.

Sorry I have no advice to give , except HANG ON IN THERE, and my best wishes and GOOD LUCK to you, sounds like you are gonna need it. Hope all works out.

**moosmom** · 12-16-2003, 08:39 AM

Just wanted to stop by and see how Katie is doing??

**sirrahbed** · 12-16-2003, 08:49 AM

I am just so sorry you are dealing with this - it is my nightmare as well. For different reasons, our home was slowly destroyed by cat urine. Two aging cats developed cancer and one was in kidney failure. Room by room was ruined. I thought the odor would never go away. Now, those two have gone to RB and we have all new carpet and what do I do? Wait one day and get two kittens - now a 3rd adult cat. I dread the day when one or the other deciddes to mark something

The odor can be cleaned up with work. Lots of bacteria liguid. We removed some baseboards and pieces of carpet, etc, It is heartbreaking I know.

I really do hope things are looking up for you. I really do feel sad about this.