Girl or Guy friends?

**micki76** · 11-14-2003, 01:18 PM

Originally posted by Cataholic
I don't find myself 'catty', or non-straight forward. I tend to hang out with people that are like me...so, maybe it isn't so much that most women are XYZ, but, more most women YOU associate with are XZY.

All I meant was that men in general are more open to speaking their mind and not worrying about hurting your feelings or saying something so PC that you can't figure out what the heck they mean. MANY women have this ability as well, and they are the women that I have for friends.

I have some women friends, but I am NOT a shopper or a make up buyer. Unlike 2kitties, I don't like to do "girlie" things and I dislike girltalk. Men and women like myself just suit my personality better. I simply encounter more men that I agree with/get along with than women.

**2kitties** · 11-14-2003, 01:32 PM

Originally posted by micki76
All I meant was that men in general are more open to speaking their mind and not worrying about hurting your feelings or saying something so PC that you can't figure out what the heck they mean.

*giggles* clearly you haven't noticed all the people in the dog house I've managed to piss off!

PC is not my virtue. But I'm working on it

**Soledad** · 11-14-2003, 01:50 PM

I'm girly and definitely not PC (Patriotically Correct, that is).

**RICHARD** · 11-14-2003, 01:58 PM

Originally posted by Cataholic
I tend to hang out with people that are like me...so, maybe it isn't so much that most women are XYZ, but, more most women YOU associate with are XZY.

psst...

just wanted to let you know there is no 'Z' gene out there

girls are XX, boys are XY.......what's XYZ????

**CamCamPup33** · 11-14-2003, 02:16 PM

I do tend to get along better with guys, seeings that i have more guy friends than girls.. Its not that i pick one or the other, i just feel more comfortable around guys because they (to me) are the easiest to talk to about things.. My 'close best friends' are girls but i have alot of really close guy friends too.. Guys you can talk about anything and most 'close' friends tell you the truth.. Even though im such a girly girl and am usually expected to have all girly girl friends, alot of my friends are guys.. They are like big brothers!

**2kitties** · 11-14-2003, 02:19 PM

Don't eveybody jump on me at once for the upcoming stereotype. It is a stereotype, but has proved to be true in my experience.

I have a few gay men friends and I absolutely LOVE to hang out with them. We have such a good time, and they are great friends.

**micki76** · 11-14-2003, 02:20 PM

Originally posted by Soledad
I'm girly and definitely not PC (Patriotically Correct, that is).

Never said that you couldn't be non PC and girlie.

**PJ's Mom** · 11-14-2003, 02:22 PM

I'm a girl with guy friends.

**ramanth** · 11-14-2003, 02:25 PM

Couldn't vote because it's equal. I have guys I hang out with and I have girls I hang out with. Usually we are always together as a group.

**CamCamPup33** · 11-14-2003, 02:28 PM

Originally posted by 2kitties
I have a few gay men friends and I absolutely LOVE to hang out with them. We have such a good time, and they are great friends.

I agree with you there!

My sisters friend is gay, he is SUCH a blast to hang out with.. I want to meet a gay guy when i go away to college, i plan on getting my own apartment so i want it to be like will and grace.. Have him as my roommate!

**2kitties** · 11-14-2003, 02:30 PM

And there is no better dancing than the dancing at the gay bars.

**micki76** · 11-14-2003, 03:35 PM

Yeah, but that’s cause they usually play the best music there. I enjoy the bars when I go with my gay friends.

**primabella** · 11-14-2003, 03:44 PM

I have more girl friends but I prefer to hang around with these guys than with a few girls. My best friends are 2 guys and a girl. It doesn't mean that I prefer one over the other it just so happens that two of my best friends are guys.

One of my friend's is gay but he has a terrible attitude problem and I hate hanging around with him. He also describes the gay clubs he goes to and makes it seem like the dirtiest place ever. But that's just him and he likes attention.