Dig your way out of this mess?

**RICHARD** · 09-02-2010, 07:20 PM

http://www.aolnews.com/world/article..._lnk1%7C168143

He's in some deep doo doo?

**Marigold2** · 09-02-2010, 07:31 PM

It has gotten to the point were very few people stay faithful in a marriage.
From my experience from family, friends, co-works, neighbors or just people I know casually maybe 20% don't cheat.
I don't think man was meant to mate for life, geese yes, man no.
Makes no sense for man to do so. He needs to spread his genes after all.
Now with women working and being so independent it's easy to start a romance, office romance especially since we tend to spend more time with our co-workers then our spouses.
When you are at work you also tend to point your best foot foward, no belching or farting no yelling or being late or rude. Just nice and perfessional and funny. You look good, no house coat or slippers, tie and suit for some and dresses for women so yea I can see how easy it could be for some people and have seen it first hand it fact.
Is it right, don't know. I am not involved in their marriages so I can't say I don't think it is all that bad, like I said I don't think man was meant to just have one mate.

**wombat2u2004** · 09-03-2010, 01:43 AM

"My dad's favorite food is steak with avocado -- he eats it with lots of avocado," Omar wrote on BBC. "But he hasn't been sent anything like that because the food sent has to first be studied by a nutritionist."

Well sonny, not much good sending them down a pot of Broccoli Casserole, there might be an explosion

**wombat2u2004** · 09-03-2010, 01:45 AM

Originally Posted by RICHARD

He's in some deep doo doo?

Or both of them

**pomtzu** · 09-03-2010, 07:23 AM

I wonder what poster #2 would do if her husband was spreading his genes around? Or maybe he is and that's just their lifestyle.

**Asiel** · 09-03-2010, 07:59 AM

People cheating in their marriage don't need excuses to do so. They just have low morals or none at all. Why would you disrespect your mate by belching, farting, yelling or being rude if you care an ounce for that person. Does being married to someone exclude us from everyday good manners? And why would we care less about our appearance at home than for people we meet at work or other places? No reason to be running around in a housecoat at home unless a person is ill. I for one dress for my family and don't give a hoot if my appearance pleases others or not, if my spouse finds me attractive then the rest of the world can abstain from looking at me if I offend them by how I dress.
I must say that the number of people that I know that cheat are not amongst those I want to be around or call friends. Being flattered by some pompous idiot trying to impress the world doesn't hold water for me.
Funny, I thought our vows said for better or worse, in sickness and in health, till death do us part. I guess the vows must have changed while I wasn't looking.
People who cheat are people who let frivolous crap go to their heads and are out looking for a good time, they never did mean to commit. Relationships take hard work, some people don't want that, they prefer looking at life as a bowl of cherries.
Man was not meant to mate for life---what a great new discovery . I don't think I've ever heard such a dumb comment in my entire life, wonder what brilliant scientist discovered this?

**pomtzu** · 09-03-2010, 08:19 AM

Originally Posted by Asiel

People cheating in their marriage don't need excuses to do so. They just have low morals or none at all. Why would you disrespect your mate by belching, farting, yelling or being rude if you care an ounce for that person. Does being married to someone exclude us from everyday good manners? And why would we care less about our appearance at home than for people we meet at work or other places? No reason to be running around in a housecoat at home unless a person is ill. I for one dress for my family and don't give a hoot if my appearance pleases others or not, if my spouse finds me attractive then the rest of the world can abstain from looking at me if I offend them by how I dress.
I must say that the number of people that I know that cheat are not amongst those I want to be around or call friends. Being flattered by some pompous idiot trying to impress the world doesn't hold water for me.
Funny, I thought our vows said for better or worse, in sickness and in health, till death do us part. I guess the vows must have changed while I wasn't looking.
People who cheat are people who let frivolous crap go to their heads and are out looking for a good time, they never did mean to commit. Relationships take hard work, some people don't want that, they prefer looking at life as a bowl of cherries.
Man was not meant to mate for life---what a great new discovery . I don't think I've ever heard such a dumb comment in my entire life, wonder what brilliant scientist discovered this?

Very well said - and very true. It's too bad that so many people feel and act otherwise.

You nailed it for sure. Stand up and take a bow for this one, my friend.

**Asiel** · 09-03-2010, 07:13 PM

Originally Posted by pomtzu

Very well said - and very true. It's too bad that so many people feel and act otherwise.

You nailed it for sure. Stand up and take a bow for this one, my friend.

Thanks Pom - I just hope that no young impressionable minds were browsing the forum and read the above post and believed that trash. I have to wonder where some people leave their brains sometimes or are they posting in their sleep

**Miss Z** · 09-09-2010, 11:26 AM

Originally Posted by Asiel

People cheating in their marriage don't need excuses to do so. They just have low morals or none at all. Why would you disrespect your mate by belching, farting, yelling or being rude if you care an ounce for that person. Does being married to someone exclude us from everyday good manners? And why would we care less about our appearance at home than for people we meet at work or other places? No reason to be running around in a housecoat at home unless a person is ill. I for one dress for my family and don't give a hoot if my appearance pleases others or not, if my spouse finds me attractive then the rest of the world can abstain from looking at me if I offend them by how I dress.
I must say that the number of people that I know that cheat are not amongst those I want to be around or call friends. Being flattered by some pompous idiot trying to impress the world doesn't hold water for me.
Funny, I thought our vows said for better or worse, in sickness and in health, till death do us part. I guess the vows must have changed while I wasn't looking.
People who cheat are people who let frivolous crap go to their heads and are out looking for a good time, they never did mean to commit. Relationships take hard work, some people don't want that, they prefer looking at life as a bowl of cherries.

Excellent post. Perhaps people who cheat in marriage are just too spineless to tell their partner that they want to end the relationship, or having many women/blokes on the go gives them a sense of personal power. Either way, I don't get it, and I personally couldn't look someone I'm supposed to care about in the eye whilst being concious of my own infidelity.

And as for a lioness being on the prowl, here she is in the thread... she's in my signature, and as you can see, she is very much awake.

**pomtzu** · 09-09-2010, 12:28 PM

Originally Posted by Miss Z

And as for a lioness being on the prowl, here she is in the thread... she's in my signature, and as you can see, she is very much awake.

And your lioness is much prettier than the one Asiel and I are referring to. Nope - the other one still sleeps. ~ ZZZZZZZZZZZ ~ Sssshhhhhh........

**Asiel** · 09-09-2010, 04:42 PM

Originally Posted by Miss Z

Excellent post. Perhaps people who cheat in marriage are just too spineless to tell their partner that they want to end the relationship, or having many women/blokes on the go gives them a sense of personal power. Either way, I don't get it, and I personally couldn't look someone I'm supposed to care about in the eye whilst being concious of my own infidelity.

And as for a lioness being on the prowl, here she is in the thread... she's in my signature, and as you can see, she is very much awake.

Thank you Miss Z...my feelings exactly. Your lioness is a pretty one but wrong one