Why I Have Deleted Posts and Threads

[happylabs]

Wow, I guess I am just totally out of the loop here. I've only been an active member for less than a year I guess it is. I didn't realize these things were going on.

I am basically a happy-go-lucky sort. If I see something that upsets me I will generally just stay away from it.

I have always thought of PT as a wonderful, happy place full of members who truly love and care for their animals and others as well.

I hope this gets worked out. Hugs to all and especially Karen and Paul!

[pomtzu]

Remember the old Bible verse? ----------- Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

You have to give respect to get respect.

And this post is not directed to anyone in particular. Just thought it might be a nice thing for all to practice - yes - me included

[Pinot's Mom]

ES,
I was the originator of the Corinna memorial thread; I saw your post, which included references to other members who had gone, and I didn't have a problem with it. I also didn't see any adverse responses, but maybe they were gone before I saw them. Remembrances of those gone before is a matter of respect and caring; shouldn't be taken any other way.

As far as the fighting in posts - yes, it has gotten mean. I avoid many of the threads in the dog house for that reason, but, as I've said elsewhere, it is the nature of the beast. You put out controversial topics, you're going to get some "disagreements" that turn ugly, unfortunately. I do not comment on these threads for many reasons, not the least of which is that I'll probably be called out, and I am one who DOES back down from a fight. I don't like fights.

I, too, enjoy your posts in the Cat section and have a good time with Edwina and Eddie on the Catmobile trips! . That's where I'm most comfortable, and it's what I love about PT - the Cat sections and Thursdays, mostly, as well as the people I've met (virtually and in reality). I do venture elsewhere, but only pleasant places. It may sound a bit Pollyanna - ish, but I deal with enough controversy in day to day life. I don't come here for it.

I'm looking forward to chatting with you, among others, in the days to come. I hope you feel the same.

Maggie

[Randi]

Sara, I too am very sorry it has come to this. Some of the names you have been called are simply out of line! If you leave, PT will have lost a fun and intelligent poster.

The good spirit we had ealier is rapidly disappearing and what a shame! I know for a fact that some have left, or have stopped posting because of all this bickering. Some just don’t feel comfortable here anymore. I can see why Karen and Paul don’t want new members to view Dog House before they join.

We have the Dog House to discuss controversial subjects, and when we do, we could at least try to keep a civil tone - yes, I realise I have been a bit harsh myself a few times, but we all have our bad days. I really don’t get why Sara is attacked for her opinions almost every time she posts in the Dog house. It’s just not fair!

Also, I do find some topics rather odd to be posted on PT, it is a forum for pet lovers, after all!