My niece is moving out!!!

[Karen]

Do, please, contact the lawyer about setting her inheritance up in a trust of some sort, so her rent can be assured from that for however long is possible. That will releive some of the stress on you and everyone else who will be worrying about her. And congratulations on getting your house back!

Aspergers is just now beginning to be diagnosed, never mind understood, it's too bad she had to get this far in life without anyone recognizing it! But at least she now has outside help.

[caseysmom]

Do, please, contact the lawyer about setting her inheritance up in a trust of some sort, so her rent can be assured from that for however long is possible. That will releive some of the stress on you and everyone else who will be worrying about her. And congratulations on getting your house back!

Aspergers is just now beginning to be diagnosed, never mind understood, it's too bad she had to get this far in life without anyone recognizing it! But at least she now has outside help.

Karen, I never knew this but her Grandmother just told me teachers tried to get her mom to look into it and she never did. She has some anger at her parents for not addressing this and frankly shame on my brother for not doing anything.

As far as money I do have a trust set up for her but she has to be willing to let me put the money in there, our relationship is not very good right now so that probably won't happen, on the other hand she is very tight with money, she has lived for 6 months on 1800 she got from my brothers last paycheck. She doesn't buy clothes, makeup, hair stuff, just nothing.

[shais_mom]

Good luck to Her and
{{hugs}} to you!

[caseysmom]

She moved!!! last night I told her I loved her and would always be here, I got no reaction, no love you too, to thank you for 6 months of free rent and board, nothen. I know she is ill but it is really hard not to be hurt and offended by her.

I asked her to leave the key under one of the potted plants when she leaves if nobody was home, she sat it next to the plant in plane view. Oh well at least I have my house back.

No joke I threw up when I was taking her bedding off her bed to wash.

[Kfamr]

Woohoo!

I know you must be relieved to have your home back, and your daughters too. I know what it's like, although not for 6 months, thankfully!

Good luck to her... and good luck getting that smell out. My uncle stayed with us for a few weeks once while he was getting back on his feet. All we had for him to sleep on was our couch. Well, when he left, we ended up getting a new couch the stench was SO bad, no matter what we did!

[caseysmom]

I have the windows opened in that room and in another part of the house to get some cross breezes going. I threw the bedding out in the garage, I think I will wash it and give it to her. I sure don't want it.

I have been spraying febreeze like crazy, she left a bunch of trash in the room too. My one daughter that shared a bathroom with her is very happy, my other daughter sort of feels bad. I feel bad for some of the things I said to her because she is ill, it was just exhausting.