Does Everyone Think You're Crazy?

**Purr-tender** · 11-17-2006, 12:15 PM

I have 8 cats, 5 came in the last 6 months, Momma Lily was pregnant and had 4 beautiful babies. She just walked out of my ferns one Saturday morning and I took her in. I love them all very, very much. My family (sister and brother who do not live with me)think that I have a problem and that I should get rid of them! First, let me tell you my home is clean, the litter is cleaned at least 2 to 3 times a day, and the cats are well fed. I am so tired of justifying keeping them. I did try very hard when the kittens where born to find good homes for them but the only takers wanted barn cats! I feel like some crazy cat collector, but I know that I am not. These are wonderful, sweet creatures that need and deserve a loving home. It does overwhelm me some days. And it is hard for my husband (not an animal lover)to tolerate. I guess I need to hear from those of you who have multiple cats how you deal with it all.

**kimlovescats** · 11-17-2006, 12:21 PM

There are many days that I question my own sanity as well! Then I see how happy and loved my babies are, and I know that I have done right by them! Thankfully, my hubby loves them as much as I do!

**catmandu** · 11-17-2006, 12:24 PM

Actually I have no family and the only people I deal with are the Librarians and Cashiers.
I really dont care at my age if anyone thinks I am sane or crazy, my Cats love me and I love them.
And thats all that matters in My World.

**Purr-tender** · 11-17-2006, 12:26 PM

I think that I could deal with this much better if I was as fortunate as you to have a husband that felt the same as I do. My husband is a great guy and my best friend, but this is one area where we don't fit.

**Catty1** · 11-17-2006, 12:27 PM

Well, maybe HE can find a good home for a couple of them?

**Purr-tender** · 11-17-2006, 12:30 PM

Catty, He did try. He checked with guys at work that he knew loved cats, but they were at their limit. He told me that he understands why I took momma in, but he just can't bond with them. All he sees is the fur and using the house as a scratching post.

**Catty1** · 11-17-2006, 02:23 PM

OK....I am glad he did try to find homes. I guess I was judgemental...sometimes people who complain don't try to solve the situation.

At least, the guys at work know who to contact!

Could he wear a t-shirt at work that says "Ask me About My Cats"?

I hope things work out!