Slick, it's a private chatroom so you have to be "approved." I don't quite understand it either because I was posting to the chatroom without being approved, but now I'm approved. When it comes up with that message, just say something like this is Slick, please approve me and I think you will get a message back saying you are approved. When you go to the link for the chatroom, there are "tabs" click on the "Welcome" tab and you'll see the other members.

You have registered for ICQ and I've already sent you a message (hope you don't mind but Randi gave me your number - told her not to give it to anyone else though) but now you have to register for the chatroom.

See you there!