I've never been much for partying. In highschool I was VERY quiet, and am still a very shy person, but sometimes you just NEED to go out and trust me, if I didn't I would definitely be crazy by now. I get stressed very easily and cannot be cooped up inside of the house. If we are going out after Dylan is asleep and are there in the morning when he wakes up, we are still there for him when he needs us to be. We went to 80's night Thursday (Dan and I) and had a blast. We didn't go for the drinks, we went for the people. To meet new people is just exciting. I'm a BIG music person and honestly I would probably be dead right now without it, so just going and listening to the music mooved me more than one can imagine.

I guess I just have different views when it comes to parenting. I've seen the way and KNOW the way I want my child to grow up. As long as their life is full of love and happiness (and sometimes I think he can't get any happier) LOL that's all that matters.