Thanks everyone...it was a hard evening. Both of my daughters took it pretty hard, I wasn't as worried about my 13 year old and she took it REALLY hard, she felt like she didn't get to say good-bye...I had asked her if she wanted for me to wait if I had to do that and I felt like she didn't want me to.

It is just wierd, my daughter pushed the door open and I thought it was gigi because she would do that to a door that was cracked open.