LKPIKE, Dylan has grown up with us. We all fell in love with him through cute stories and baby pictures. We've been with Cass through her horrible relationship with Dan.

When I divorced my first husband, I remember that liberating feeling. After being in an abusive relationship, no one was going to stop me from being me. I had custody of Jaden, but there were plenty of days where I was so hungover that I layed around all day. I should have been playing with him and giving him more attention. Within a month or two, I quickly came to my senses and realized that I was on the wrong track. I was taking care of ME to much and not Jaden.

I've never said anything, to you Cass because I remember how bad my heart hurt when my parents had the talk with me. It tore my heart up to have my mothering criticized. I felt as if they were saying that I didn't love my son. At the time, I was defensive and didn't agree. Looking back now, I am so greatful that they said something.

I could name several posts and incidences that make me feel that you are making those same mistakes. But I'm going to leave it at that, there is no reason for me to point things out. I know in your heart you know what is going on and that you love Dylan. I just hope that your priorites change.