What do you think about age differences in relationships?

[carole]

I think what people are saying here, is that if you share your personal life with us all, you have to expect to take the negative responses with the positive, people are only responding as such out of pure concern for Cass, and in her heart she knows that, but it may seem as a personal attack on her as a mother, and naturally she will be there to defend herself.

I don't see any problem with Cass having a social life, infact I would encourage it, I did not do that, I became almost a recluse and I don't think it did me or my child any good., as a result I was lonely and unhappy, that is bound to bounce off on your child.

I think as along as she is not introducing Dylan to him, what is the problem, she can still be a good mother, and have some fun, my only warning is be careful, feelings can get hurt, and you could get in way over your head., I think because Cass has had the serious stuff and it was hard and did not work out, she is sensible to not get involved seriously with anyone just yet, as she is still in the healing process.

Also just because Cass wants a social life, does not in anyway make her a bad mother, or one neglecting her responsibility's,there is a way to have both, and many people do, I have never doubted for one moment Cass and her devotion to her child, I am suprised that many of you do.

However I must say Cass I doubt any 19 year old male is very mature, but if that is not what you are looking for, and it does not bother you, then go for it.