My problem with PIF's remarks were the constant "my forum" comments. If it had only been once or twice ok, but it was in two or three different threads. I want what I say on PT to stay on PT. I don't mean to be disrespectful here PIF but if this thread was intended to be on your forum then that is where it would be. Believe it or not I don't like the fact that the thread got deleted either but that is the right of the poster on PT. Making suggestions for changes is fine but I felt like you kept pushing it.

As far as the smiley face making the comment a joke, it could still be taken as a nasty joke and caused hurt feelings. Yes, I know that Chrangharris caused hurt feelings too but the difference for me is that I don't think she did it intentionally while you meant to hit a slammer home. (note smiley face )

Cataholic- shame on you for getting personal!
Now this goes back to my question...Is the difference in how people react because of how it is worded?