Oh my, Tonya, you don't have much luck lately, do you....
Isn't there anybody in his life that could get through to Jaden? Someone he really trusts and likes? I am afraid that you are right about the reason: Jaden cannot cope with all the commotion around lil Tyler . It is very important now to stay as calm as possible, and give him all the love and warmth possible, even after Tyler is born. Cannot you give some "important" job, so he fels very important?
Good luck? Tonya, I am crossing my fingers for you and your family!!