another thing is, Some people Ignore my PMs (not saying who), and sometimes if someone makes a new thread, you can tell that people totally flock to it, just because of the user that posted it. once I cross-posted a thread in General and Dog General, bumped both of them up 4 times, and still got no replies. It just doesnt feel good when youre ignored. I hope no one will jump down my throat for this, and I'm hoping it wont start any fights. Maybe I'll make more friends as I go along, maybe I wont. Maybe I should leave, and stop trying.