Oh Tonya...while I do understand why you're so upset, I can't help but feel sad for Jaden. I know that as a parent, its important to have him 'learn his lesson', so he does remember this and learn from his mistakes, but then...he's only 7 years old. I remember being tempted by gifts at 7. We usually get gifts on Eid, and my mom used to buy them ahead of time and hide them from us. I 'knew' my mom had hidden them, and sometimes, I would go on a searching spree. I found them once, when I was around 7 or so. They were wrapped. I carefully took them out DAYS before I was supposed to, opened just the side of the paper, took a little peak at what it was, and taped it back how it was. My mom never found out because I never told her...knowing I would've been busted. I was just SO tempted to know what I got. Even without my mom knowing, I still learned my lesson. The gift wasn't a surprise, and I wasn't as thrilled as everyone else when I opened my presents, because I already KNEW what was inside. I never did that again.

Just saying that kids are like that. Its hard for anyone to resist, but for a child, its even harder. Sometimes kids don't realize what they're doing, but later realize and say, "OOPS", to themselves. I do believe giving his gifts to a charity is a good idea to 'teach him', and something he'll remember for the rest of his life, but I think giving all his presents is being too hard on him. He's a small child and was looking so forward to this day. Of course he made a big mistake and needs to learn from it, but please don't be too hard on him, and ruin his Christmas all together.