Audrey I think Jenny has put it into perspective for you,rid yourself of any guilt sweetie, it is time to do that, look at your babies and is that not all the proof you need, I know you take it to heart, and that is nothing to be ashamed of, that is part of being YOU , but you know in your heart ,your furbabies have a great home, and so do all of us.

As for that certain person, maybe you should Pm them and tell them exactly how you feel, and try and bury the hatchet so to speak, I know this person is very passionate about what they believe, but also has a heart of gold, and I donot believe for one moment they hate you, or have a personal grudge against you, but you need to talk to them about it ok , HUGS.

Audrey even I have stated there are always exceptions to the rule, personally i had problems with Lizzzzzy in this thread who made statements which would trigger anyone's emotions, without any thought or experience, a person who admitted to not owning a cat or even liking them, grrr...., but I am not going to continue to feed this persons need for attention, and I still believe they are nothing more than a troll.