Debbie, I'm trying so hard to stay strong for you but it's not working very well. I just read your last posting here and now I'm bawling like a baby. Taking Tubby on your roadtrip is not morbid at all. In fact I would love to see a picture of the urn containing his ashes. Others may find this extremely morbid; if so you can email it to me. His final resting place sounds so peaceful and I know he will be happy there.