Originally posted by lynnestankard
I'm sure Peanut is asking you where Tubby is - it's been proved cats do mourn. As silly as it sounds - tell her whats happened and yes, she will need more cuddles and assurances. A big part of her life is missing too. Mourn the Tubster together Debbie - tears soften cat fur xxxxx

Love Lynne xxx
Thanks Lynne. Last night Terry wasn't around so Peanut and I had a good snuggle session. I told her all what happened to Tubby and told her he won't be coming home, but that he is still looking out for her, and if she feels something licking on her when nobody is around - it's Tubby. After I got done telling her all about it, she stayed for about 5 minutes - without me petting her which is unusual because she will normally leave as soon as you stop petting her - but anyway, she stayed for about 5 minutes, sitting quietly, seeming to contemplate what I was saying. Then she looked up at me, gave me one of her tiny little squeak meows and jumped up to be under her "heat lamp." I could swear she understood what I was saying, but then later she was wandering the house meowing, so I don't think it sunk in.

I don't know if I've mentioned this already, but it does seem like she needs more attention now. I also noticed this when Tubby was really sick with the first "crisis." She seeks us out and will jump in our laps, which she very rarely ever did before. I don't know if it's because she is looking for more attention, or if it's because our laps are emptier. Tubby was always dominant and she would never jump up when he was there, so maybe it's just that he's not there to intimidate her anymore. We have been paying extra attention to her because she seems to be looking for it - and because we need it.