I'm not sure that I think the jalapenos are cruel...I'm just not sure how effective method of punishment they are. But I guess we tried it as a method to stop the dogs from digging...too bad they liked it Maybe it is the new "washing the mouth out with soap?"

I don't think spanking is wrong. Physcial abuse, yes, but there is a huge difference between a swat on the butt and and a beating. I just don't think you can reason with a two year old and you need to get their attention, espically in cases where their actions could be dangerous...running into the street, touching a hot stove, etc.