Debbie, I agree with the others in that it does take time to heal. It may even take years. I know that I still think about my Pepper daily and still get tears in my eyes if I think about him too much. I don't think that we ever get over our loss but we do get stronger emotionally. The best thing that helped me was to let 2 more cats into my life. I know this isn't the right thing for everyone but it really helps to start being able to love another kitty even though you know in your heart that the kitty you lost can never be replaced. Please take care. Things will get better. {{{HUGS}}}