OH NO!!! Kim I'm sure this is not an honor you truly wanted bestowed upon you. That sounds like a horrible few minutes! Poor Asper must have been scared out of her wits to behave that way.
Don't blame yourself Kim because it could have been anything that spooked her. It could have happened before you reached in for her. We all know they can become little contortionists when they want to get away! She obviously didn't like that man and she didn't want to go with him. She was just making darn sure she got to stay with Jen!
I hope your ok and I hope that man doesn't go see his lawyer!