slleipnir,

With all due respect, if you can't say anything nice or comforting...DON'T. Remember, you can't take back words once they're out.

ILMAG is having a hard enough time without you adding to her already feeling miserable.

Laura is right, I think you need to talk to someone. How about a school counselor?

Hang in there honey. We're here for you.

(((hugs))))

Donna