Slleipnir, I am so disturbed after reading your last post, and worried about you, sweetheart nothing is worth feeling the way you are about this topic, I know that I was not one of the people who were nasty to you, and in this thread I am merely stating the obvious, and really I have a problem with this Lizzzzy person, who appears to be nothing more than a troll.

There are quite a few other people on PT who have had their cats de-clawed, and now wish they never had, just like you, everyone makes mistakes, and if you learn by them as you have yourself, that is what is important.

I can speak for myself in saying I certainly have no bad feelings towards you and never had, and I am sure no-one hates you, it sounds like you are feeling very low right now, and everything is getting on top of you.

Please don't leave PT, that would be another mistake, your contribution is very important, even though I disagree with you on certain aspects of this topic, it is just that a difference of opinion, nothing less, nothing more, I respect you as a person, and have always enjoyed your posts.

It really saddens me to hear a young person as yourself, being so hard on herself and feeling so inadequate and despondent about your life, life is good slleipnir, embrace it, and make the very most of it that you can, when I feel like life is worthless, I just think of all the people out there given death sentences, like diagnosed with incurable cancer, some of which are young people like yourself, and how much they would do anything to beable to live, but have no choice, it doesn't always work, but it helps put my life into perspective sometimes.

Please Pm me anytime , even if it is just to chat, and please stay here with us on PT. HUGS.