I'm pretty new here, too, and I've learned alot on this site. I think sometimes our opinions get taken as "advice" or judgements when we respond - that happened to me a month or so ago and I, too, felt like quitting because people posted quotes out of context and made me sound like a...well, something not very nice. It's bound to happen over hot topics. All I can say is that what gets posted should be taken with a grain of salt - some people post topics for discussion and others just need support. I feel really sad over the whole Charlie thing - the situation and the ruckus on PT. I hope NO ONE quits over this. I hope to continue to hear about Charlie and Bella, and Monty and KiKi