I haven't been here a lot in the last week or so, and I'm unfamiliar with Arthur's aggression. But based on what you have said, I think you made a very tough, but mature decision. There will be people that disagree, whether they post here or somewhere else, they will. But it doesn't matter. In your heart, you did what was right, and you had control. If only we could control olther parts of our lives this way. Wouldn't that be great?