Has Meka been fixed? Sometimes this changes personalities in cats. Too early and they stay kittens and too late you end up with kittens!
I think your training Meka that she gets attention by doing the things she is doing. She is saying "Hello" look at Me!!!. She knows she is going to get punished but atleast she knows your looking at her!!!
Maybe try the ignore unless life threatening approach? If she sees your not interested then she will stop. Also set up a time prior to going to bed to sit and pet. This will let her know bedtime is close.
Remember: Cats do not have clocks!!! They don't get the concept of time. That is why you may do something for 5 minutes and it seems like a lifetime. Imagine not living with a clock. Would you know how long you got paid attention too?
Your doing good with Meka. They say the animals adopt their owner's behaviors. I can see it in my animals. You may need to get all "Oprah" and look at your own behavior? You may find out your cat is on to something...