If you are certain that no-one else will take Meka, then I guess it is just going to take time and a lot of patience as Debbie suggested, you obviously love the cat, I can read that through your threads,otherwise why would you be here?

I guess kitty's are just like some kids, they take a long time to learn, and some never do, but it sounds like you are prepared to put in the time for Meka, and that is so neat to hear, I think like others I mis-understood your thread a little, sorry for that, your hubby's ultimatiums just sounded so harsh, and I was scared for Meka.

Keep up the good work, I am sure you will be rewarded in time.