Originally posted by catfamily
Just think of you..no other people..then you'll come up with lots of things that you love about yourself.Don't let others make you think differently.That can damage your spirit.People do that to other people sometimes to make themselves feel better .
I agree. As long as YOU know you're a good person and you believe in yourself, it makes no difference what others think of you. Only YOU can control how others control you and your feelings. You can let them totally devastate you or you can blow them off and say that they are not even worth your time to dwell on them. THEY are the one with the problem and YOU need to not worry about THEIR problem. All you need to do is worry about YOU.

Don't know if I really said that right, but I hope you get what I'm trying to say. I also saw an article in a magazine that made me think of you, Jen, and what you're going through. I will try and see if I can find it online. Otherwise I'll see what I can do to get it to you somehow.

Chin up, girl. You're a wonderful, caring person and don't EVER let anybody EVER tell you any less.