Leslie, as I might have mentioned before it wasn't a matter of choosing a male cat instead of a female one. The thing is that my cats chose me or to be more precise their previous owners did. To tell the plain truth, I had found another family for Pippa to live with, but after feeding her with the bottle every hour for about a month and a half and watch her improve every day I got too attached and could not give her away. Now that she is still living with mum at least i can see her on a daily basis.

I wish that Lulu accepts her because I still would like Pippa to live with us and also due to the fact that once a year me and my husband travel for a long period of time that can range from one month to two. Last April - May when we where away we both where very concerned about Lulu and spoke about her every day. Calling mum to ask about her every three to four days, depending on the possibillity to call home. When after a month we where home she just couldn't believe, she kept veiling on me for a long period of time fearing that we might leave her again. She also got very fat with lack of exercise. Mum tried to stimulate her to play but she just wasn't interested.

As you see its for her own good that I'm pushing this, cos i was feeling quite guilty at first.