I know that feeling I am having a hard time looking at all the "baby" threads after my daughter losing her baby this last summer. We had a really good cry to gether yesterday in the mall. The were having a huge baby things sale and all these pregnat and new mommies were there. We looked at each other and just started bawling. We moved down the mall and had a HUGE chocolate milk shake. We both felt better after that neither of use had allowed the other to cry infront of each other It helped a lot. The elephant in the room as aknowledged and shrink down in size.