Xmas time is pretty low key for me, and that is the way I like it being a social phobic, I am not into big parties and events.

sometimes we all get together at my sisters house in Auckland, and that is nice, this year we are all just doing our own thing, my sister has bought vouchers for my parents to go to Valentines our fav restaurant for xmas dinner, and we are just either going to have a picnic by the beach if its a nice day, or something simple.

We are all going to be together tomorrow to celebrate my mother's 70 birthday, so that will be nice.

My husband washed his hands of all his family about three years ago when his mother died, long story, but best thing all around.