If your heart is in throwing the Xmas party-go for it.

But admonish everyone before hand that shenanigans, bad attittudes and BS shall be checked at the door.


When the poop was thick in my family, THAT was the rule.....

Behave or do not show up...

Adults, given the rules, have no one else to blame if they decide not to attend....

And if you get any guff you say to them, "You can't behave for a few hours?????"