When Fister first came up, I said: He is NOT going to sleep in our bed!! Well, I guess I had to change my mind about that! He's there most of the time now.

In the evenings, just before we go to bed, he will sit on the duve waiting and sometimes even call, if he thinks we're too slow or if it's later than usual. He walks back and forth between us about 10 times and then decide to lie on my husband's chest while reading or watching TV. If he goes out for a snack or something, he walks all over John - and he often jumps right up on him when he comes back, as if he was made of concrete - but never on me! The minut I lay down to sleep, he comes over and lie behind my head (that's when I have to give him a headbump) demanding half the pillow and he stays for an hour or so. I can even turn around now and he will stay! Later he retires to under the wardrobe or to his own bed in the next room.