Ted, Danni and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Danni might be too young, but http://www.petloss.com/ has a beautiful candle ceremony each Monday to honor our babies. They also have a list of suggested reading: http://www.petloss.com/amazon/booklist.htm Many of them are children's books. One of them might help her know that it is okay to talk about Ted and to come to accept his passing.

Please keep us posted about how she's doing.