Hi there,
Not sure if you want to try this or not but Jenluckenbach suggested this and it sure works for me: ask your vet about putting the kitty on amitriptylene. You'll probably have to play w/the dosage somewhat so that kitty isn't drugged and dopey but it might be worth a try. My Specs ruined my buffet to the point where the wood is warped and breaking off the bottom. I was really frustrated w/him until I took Jen's suggestion. All it does is mellow him out, he's not drugged, but he's as lovable as he's always been and he isn't picking on my old male cat, Boo. Why not give it a whirl? Bless you for hanging in there.


Blessings,
M