Jen,
It took me about two weeks after my "incident" to feel better but I think that's because I tried to deal with it on my own first. The "so-called" friend in my case I think wanted to stay just casual friends (as opposed to friends you actually socialize with) but I made the same decision as you. I decided that the friendship was over and done with. The worst part for me is that I have to see this person everyday at work. We remain civil and smile at each other, make casual conversation, but I'll never let her into my life again. Yes, it hurts, but if I'm going to move on, it's the only option.
but I was told that I tell lies and that I am not rational.

Did this so-called friend say this to you? Talk about a stab in the heart!!! How on earth could this be true?? My response to this? Consider the source.

More {{{BIG HUGS}}} coming your way. If I lived in your town, I'd be honoured to have you as a close friend.

luv
slick
xo