Jen, I'm so glad you responded again. I have been worried all day about you! You sounded so desperate and lost in your first post. I think if there had been anyway that we could have all gotten to you today you probably would have broken ribs by now from all the hugs!
What I'm gathering from your second post is that your not even sure why this person is so angry with you. No explanation and she won't even talk to you? I don't think you are the one with the problem Jen. It really sounds like this other person has some serious issues that she needs to work through. You valued this friendship and she won't even give you the benefit of explaining her feelings or try to talk things out with you?
I know your feelings are deeply hurt but please remember that you very loved by many! I hope this passes soon and I really hope that this person will at least have the dignity to call or respond to your emails so that you can either begin to heal this friendship or have some closure with an explanation.
We are all here and unfortunately many of us know exactly what you are experiencing. I don't think anyone could have said it better than Lorraine did.

We LOVE you and care very much for you! Please keep us posted on how you are doing and always remember that you are a very special lady.