Thank you all so much for remaining civil and not being afraid to voice your opinions and points of view.

I completely agree with the majority of you.

As for what guineapig-whatever said, I, too, think that was really insensitive.. BUT I guess I did ask for peoples' opinions and that was hers. As much as it may have been hurtful, I have to respect her opinion, and just wish that one day she will open up and become more open-minded to people that are different from her. *sighs*